The Banquet of Unconditional Love ( Luke 14:7-14 )

A banquet is more than food on the table. It is a moment of togetherness, of joy, of hearts opening in celebration. Yet Jesus reminds us that life becomes a true banquet only when our giving is free—without condition, without expectation of return. So often, however, our giving is tied with return. Parents quietly hope that in their old age their children will take care of them. Children look for constant support and affirmation from their parents. Friends expect their kindness to be remembered. Even in small acts of service, we long for appreciation. In subtle ways, we are tied to recognition, security, and honour. Our generosity becomes measured, and our love begins to carry conditions.

 

But Jesus calls us beyond this—into the freedom of selfless love. This freedom is rooted in humility. And humility is not weakness, nor a self-pitying “poor me.” True humility is strength—the courage to give without seeking recognition, to love without fear of losing security, to serve without chasing honour. As C. S. Lewis wisely said: “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.”

 

Creation itself mirrors this truth. The river does not drink its own water. The tree does not eat its own fruit. The flower does not bloom for itself. Their life and beauty are always for others. In this quiet, constant giving, creation reveals the richness of God’s banquet.

 

And God’s banquet is always inclusive—no one is left out. At the table, we are called to listen not only to spoken words but also to the unspoken silences: the shy voice that hesitates, the burden that goes unnamed, the pain hidden in a smile. To make space for both self and others—that is the spirit of the banquet of the Kingdom.

 

When we dare to live in this way—untied from recognition, security, and honour—our lives become a feast of grace. Joy deepens, love multiplies, and the ordinary tables of our daily living shine with the beauty of God’s Kingdom.

 

- Lilly Pushpam PBVM